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7 Things to Consider Before Getting Engaged

Mikkie Mills Oct 3, 2019
Engagement is a big step in one's life and you have to know how to handle it. The thought of getting engaged can make you feel nervous. It might be something you were hoping for but suddenly you've become seriously overwhelmed. Everyone has been there for the most part and we all happened to respond differently on what exactly should we do.

Is This the Right Person

Ask yourself if your other half is the right person for you. The funny thing about this is that prior to the engagement your partner seemed to be the one and you were totally on board.
Now that engagement has entered the picture, you might be getting some cold feet. It's normal to be hesitant. Don't dive into something you are unsure of!

longevity

Once you are given an engagement ring, you have to think about the longevity of the relationship. Will you both make it past two years after marriage?
How long will you be together after the actual engagement? For some reason, too many find themselves engaged, then within months they are running for the hills.
All of these questions need to answered before you accept any kind or proposal or searching around on how to buy an engagement ring. One needs to understand very clearly that engagement means you are committed to that one person and that's it. You have to be in it for the long haul or not at all!

Money

Engagement is a wonderful moment in anyone's life. However, when it comes to money, this happiness can turn into a disaster. Whoever you decided to get engaged to make sure you both are on the same page when it comes to money.

Bills

Fourth, bills can destroy any engagement. Is your other half good with handling money or do they constantly rack up bills? Are they good at paying bills on time? It's best to sort these sort of issues out before you jump into that engagement. It's at this time you start getting closer and looking a little bit more into each other's financial health.

Financial Health

Financial health is the fifth thing to consider as it can be one of the biggest reasons couples find themselves single again. Try to talk to each other freely about money and see where you fall. Share your income statement, taxes and all bills that you need to pay way before you get engaged.

Lifestyle

How you live your life prior to engagement should be just the same when you do get engaged. Don't find yourself with someone who all of a sudden upends their life and is a completely different person. If there is a sudden change in how you lead your lifestyle, then you may run into problems.

Maturity

Maturity can go along way in terms of how you will handle problems in life. Is your partner mature enough to settle down or are they getting engaged because everyone else is doing it? Have a heart to heart talk and address these questions. Allow your maturity to grow, but first get on the same page as developing adults.
There are a lot of people out there who dream of getting engaged one day and living happily ever after with their soulmate. That's dandy, but you need to look at reality and what it will bring you.
Have a good grip on your partner and know they are the right person for you and no one else comes close. You need to be emotionally locked to the other person.