Ah...Love. Or lust? Or love? Umm...whatever it was. You saw him. He saw you. And sparks flew. Then oblivion to everything around you set in. Who you spoke to throughout the day, where you went, what you did...became just a blur. Only him. Only you. That's all there was. That was a week ago.
Slowly the high of the first stages of love died down and the need to know him arose. But how? You're already a couple! Then how do you go about asking him about himself now?
In an uncomfortable place like this one, girl, it would really help if you had some help with conversation starters. You know, explaining the highs and lows of what exactly to ask, how to ask and how to go about it. It all begins with good conversation starters with your boyfriend.
Good conversation topics won't suddenly materialize out of thin air. You'll have to make them up. This is of course all in the initial stages. Once you know him well, you won't need any help to have long drawn conversations that run into the night. But until then, here's presenting some great conversation starters. They'll help.
Good Conversation Starters With Your Guy
A good conversation should have a great flow to it with minimal awkward silences, they say. It's OK to have awkward silences (that is bound to happen), but a good conversation is one which leaves you feeling 'Wow. That was nice'. And of course, brings a smile to your face. So then what are some ideas for conversation starters? Read girl, read.
Or you could play a game. Ask random questions like 'Would you smell a hundred day old sock or would you eat a hundred day old egg'. It's so weird, he can't help but laugh. Get him into the mode and soon enough, one thing will lead to another. Then you won't even need to know how to keep a conversation going.
A small activity can clue you in on a lot of information if you steer it well. And before you know it...a really long conversation! Now that is a great way to go about starting great conversations with your boyfriend. What say?
Tried and Tested
Nothing wrong with the tried and tested way, that's for sure. The reason it's around is because it works. Simple. Here's what you do-ask the most basic question, yes, but add on with more details.
The key is to get him to talk so you'll know him better. When he starts relating his hobbies, or other activities to you, who says you have to be mute and simply listen? Add in with your thoughts as well, and that right there, is an interesting conversation in the making.
It would help if you knew some good questions to ask a guy. So then, some things that you can talk about that work out as great conversation starters could well be the following:
- Do you like Jim Carrey's comedy better or Adam Sandler's?
- What is your best friend like?
- What is the craziest thing you've ever done?
- Ever been arrested?
- Where would you go if someone sponsored a ticket?
- What superpower would you like to have? Why?
- What is the one food item you'll never eat?
- Do you prefer crowds or isolated places?
- If I gave you $500, what would you buy?
- How do you spend a Sunday?
So, now you have these conversation starters to help you out. Go ahead then, do your thing and win him over a second time. This time with your wit, humor, and the fact that you can start and steer a great conversation like no one else he knows.