So let me just start by saying that in this little article on dating advice, I am not going to be a wee bit nice. This article will place in front of you some cold, hard facts. In my opinion, what men want in a relationship cannot be subjected to euphemism.
Dating Advice For Women
- Men Hate Nagging:
In my opinion, this is one of the most important things. Studies say that women use nagging as a way to ensure that men get something done, but men do not do it simply because they get terribly angry with the nagging and questioning. So the best advice here is to stop nagging! By simply hinting, once in a while, but fewer times overall, men will get the thing done and with minimum fuss and loss of energy on your side.
- Men Hate Being Told What to Do
Because that is the way our brains have been programed since the Stone Age. Men have always taken their own decisions, and any sort of inter-mediation or value addition has generally been frowned upon. For all people may say about there being a woman behind every successful man, whispering advice in his ears, men hate listening. The better listeners among us may not mind, but generally view this value addition as nitpicking and terribly frustrating.
- Men Hate Women Who Ask Rhetorical Questions:
I guess there are some questions men hate answering. Does this dress make me look fat? Why don't you understand me? You don't care about me these days. You don't love me anymore. Men really, really hate listening to these things, because, well, we really have no answer to these questions apart from no, sorry, no, and no respectively. So do not ask the sort of questions that really corner us. We do love you. Because if we did not, we would not be with you.
- Men Like Being Pampered:
Even more than women! A massage for you is equivalent to a nice 4 course home cooked dinner for us. Shopping for you is equivalent to you picking up the check for dinner once in a while. It is all about degrees. Whoever said that men do not need to be pampered was totally wrong. We too like the attention. We too like gifts.
- Men Like Smart Women:
Our relationship with the hot blond on the cover of Maxim or Vogue ends pretty much then and there. Men do like smart and independent women. Because let us face it, that skinny girl has really nothing much beyond her looks, while a smart one offers a lot more in terms of quality. Just refrain from nagging and questioning!
- Men Like Interesting Women:
When we sift through online dating profiles for women, we generally look for the humorous lot, the witty ones with a nice joke up their sleeve. So adding a touch of wit to your profile is one of the best methods. Oh, and the most important online dating tip for women: Add a good picture as well!