Age can never be and should not be an obstacle in finding your dream man. As soon as you reach 30, you might start thinking that you won't be having much luck in finding your dream man. But don't worry, crossing 30 should not put you on the panic mode. You will be glad to find that there are a lot of decent, kind, and available men who are also looking for someone to love, and that could just be you.
You don't have to do anything drastic. By this age, you are mature and sensible enough to gauge any person and his behavior. Just get on with these dating tips given in the sections below. They are practical tips and eye-opening insights and some inspiration for women who are looking for their dream man.
For Women Over 30
Forget and Forgive
This tip is for those ladies who have been married or in relationships before. Leave the things of the past in the past. Bringing them up every now and then will only spoil things for you. Make a fresh start and don't compare things or men with the men in your past. Don't make assumptions about people beforehand. Do not rush into things just because you are lonely and single now. Take your time to heal and make the next move only when your ready and not needy.
Don't Sound Desperate
The most vital tip is that you should not sound desperate. Desperation proves to be a total turn off for guys, so try to adjust your perception as well as your attitude. Do not think that being single at this age is a tragedy, but think of it as a God-sent opportunity for another chance to make the right decision. You will be surprised to see how much you have matured since you were in your 20s.
Don't Weigh Down Your Dreams on Him
Although you must have thought of how your dream man or soulmate would be, it is advisable not to have a preconceived image of your 'prince charming' who resembles a favorite celebrity. Respect him for who he is and don't make the mistake of trying to change your man to fit your preconceived image. It's high time to get real.
Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder
Looking beautiful is every woman's birthright. If you are hoping to get the man of your dreams and feel that your age is working against you, make sure that you at least try to look presentable and feminine. Take proper care of yourself and maintain good hygiene. Wear dresses that makes you look stylish and attractive. Be natural rather than overdoing the makeup. Let him fall for your inner beauty rather than outer appearance.
Attitude and confidence is what attracts a man towards a woman. Smile more often. The best way would be to be yourself around people. Relationships are about bringing out the best in each other and not in being what the other person wants you to be. Be polite to everyone and believe in yourself to stand your ground on what may be more important to you.
Trust the Universe. Your Mr. Right will come to you at the right time and for the right reasons. Being overly attentive and responsive is not a good idea here. Don't go cyberstalking people and checking on them every hour. If you feel he is not being serious, then leave and move on. Always remember, "Don't make someone a priority who treats you like an option."
Be Serious and Don't Play Around
Lastly, if you are really hoping to win a partner or soulmate, make sure that you are really serious or genuine in your approach, i.e., you are not wasting your time by dating guys until you find your Mr. Right, or guys who are too young to commit, or those who are not independent and cannot support a family.
For Older Women
Nowadays, while dating, age does not matter for women who are in their 50s and 40s. Any kind of relationships are workable regardless of their age, gender, and social status. Dating tips for women over 50 are similar to that for women over 40. By this age, most women are financially independent, confident, and very well aware of their needs and demands. As a result, they may also tend to have sky-high egos. So, try to check your ego and approach a man with the right attitude. If you are dating a younger man, the age question is definitely bound to crop up. But don't let that be a hindrance to your relationship. Talk to them, and don't feel shy.
For Online Dating
One of the easiest ways of finding a guy is via the internet―online dating sites. But are you fed up of sitting in front of your computer all day in the hope of getting a message from a handsome person, but nobody has contacted you so far? The tricks of finding the perfect person are the same, and there is no need to get frustrated. You may think that men on online dating sites are not genuine. But you may be totally wrong. Don't set unrealistic expectations and don't expect that you will find the man of your dreams within a month after you have posted your profile. You will definitely need to plan your approach with the right attitude.
So, these were some of the dating tips for women above 30. Make an honest assessment of the way you are living and make whatever changes that are necessary for finding your dream man, and believe us, you will definitely find him!