Love is strange at times! It makes you do crazy things. For instance, falling deeply in love with a person, and then breaking up for unavoidable reasons. That isn't strange. The strange part comes when you keep thinking about them even after a long gap after your break up. Well, sometimes we tend to complicate things ourselves. We hurt the ones we love, we fight with the one we love, and then ultimately break up only to wish you could undo all the wrong things that happened. Moving on with life is the obvious answer, but what if you want to get back together? Like we said before, love makes you do strange things.
Don't worry, because we have all at some point, been through this phase. The problem begins when you start wanting to get back to your ex, and revive all the feelings you shared. In some cases, the estranged couple are in touch with each other as 'friends' whereas, in many cases, certain break ups lead to bitter feelings. Therefore, many prefer to be away from each other to avoid getting hurt. For that matter, if you wish to reconsider getting back with your ex, would it be a good idea? How would you gauge? Here are some 'tried and tested' tips to know if he/she still has a thing for you.
Various Signs That Your Ex Still Loves You
If you are in touch with your ex then it will be easier to gauge his/her feelings. Does your ex call you more than often? Even if you claim to be 'just friends', do you feel you spend more time with him/her than you would normally do with a friend? Does he/she find constant ways to keep in touch with you the whole day? It could be through chat, through SMS, or even phone calls. You need to judge the amount you communicate with each other, to know if you have something special in store.
Are you in touch with his/her friends? Do you feel those friends call you a bit too often? It could be that your ex still has a thing for you, and is trying to know more about you. That would itself be an indicator that the feelings you shared haven't melted away with time. In that case, these friends would prove to be an excellent source to know the truth. It would be a wiser idea to ask directly about the matter rather than wait in hope for something to happen.
Do your meetings with your ex result in flirtation or talks about the time you spent? Any amount of intimacy is a sure sign he/she is still interested in you. However, in this case, it would be a better idea to have a direct talk to avoid getting hurt again. This would help you to know what is going on in his/her mind.
You are the best judge to know and gauge the feelings you share with your ex. After all, with all the time you must have spent together, there would always be certain things you both can convey without really being vocal about it. If you feel your ex does have feelings for you, and you do wish to give the relationship a second chance, you need to talk it out with them. It would be foolish to repeat the same mistake twice; hence you must sort out issues that caused the breakup earlier. Once you have sorted out the issues then you would have a clear picture about the way the relationship is shaping up.
Both of you can work out on the problems faced earlier, and rediscover the beautiful relationship you shared. Have a positive approach to the situation, and you will surely find a way back into your life.