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Good Questions to Ask a Guy to Get Him Out of His Shell

Good Questions to Ask a Guy
Good questions to ask a guy are even easier than imagined. The only thing to remember is that their responses are what make the difference. They are not always open to answering questions. So what questions would they like to answer?
Rashida Khilawala
Last Updated: Oct 06, 2017
After writing several articles on appropriate questions to ask people, we decided to take the next step forward. Many of our female readers made the rookie mistake of asking "boyfriend questions" to a guy they just met. While it is an honest mistake, let's not allow it happen again
It is important to remember that guys also need time to get comfortable with a girl. If you have the knack to get him to be himself with you, then he can be your best friend and beau in no time. The questions listed here are to allow you to get him out of his so-called shell and get comfortable with you.
Questions to Ask a Guy You Like
If you see yourself getting interested in a guy, the best bet is to strike up a conversation with him. This will give him a slight hint that you are interested in him.
Students chatting in college cafe
• Which high school did you go to?
• Did you grow up here?
• What is the meanest thing you have ever done to anyone?
• Have you ever had the "naked in high school" nightmare?
• Which is your favorite movie?
• Which restaurant do you like the most?
• Are you dating anyone right now?
• What would you do if you were invisible?
• Do you believe in zodiac signs?
• What is your favorite Halloween Costume?
These are general questions that can be used as conversation starters with a guy as well. You can stick to the all time regulars like "What is your favorite color" or "who is your favorite actor".
Questions to Get to Know Him Better
Once he is a little comfortable with you, you can try to draw him out. Get to know him at a deeper level and make a connection. These questions are to draw out the real him, without the macho fluff.
Young people relaxing with cup of coffee outside the cafe
• What was your childhood like?
• What are your pet names?
• Were you closer to your mother of your father?
• Which is your most prized possession?
• Do you believe in reincarnation?
• Did you always know that you wanted to do this (whatever profession he follows)?
• Is there any day from the past that you would like to relive? Why?
• Do you like more sugar? Or spice?
• So what have your love relationships been like?
• At what age did you lose your virginity?
• If you had to choose, which one would it be: intelligent, but not that good looking, or good looking but not that intelligent?
• Have you ever cheated on someone?
• Have you ever been cheated on by someone.
• Which do you prefer, cats or dogs?
• Do you think there is a difference between having sex and making love?
• If you were omnipotent for a day, what would you do?
• Do you care about what people think of you?
• If you met someone who captured your heart, would you tell him/her? Or would you keep it to yourself and love them from a distance?
• Which is your favorite season?
• If the day started having 25 hours, how much of a difference would it make to you?
These were a list of slightly more intimate questions to ask a guy. They will also give him the impression that you are not a vile person trying to talk about random stuff. These questions can help you know each other at a deeper level.
When Playing the Question Game
Question games are a great way to get to know each other without any real drama. It is straight, fast, and to the point. You can try out different fun questions to ask a guy in these games. Questions for these games should not be ones that have many loopholes of sorts. Check out these examples.
Couple relaxing on an empty floor
• Have you ever lied while playing the questions game?
• If you had to be one person in history, who would it be?
• Super man or spider man, which one you prefer to be?
• If you had to ask out one girl in the room, who would it be? (do not use this if you are alone)
• What is your wildest sexual fantasy?
• If you had two options, smooch one of the guys in the room, or walk for 1 kilometer on the road, naked. Which one would you choose?
• Have you ever performed a sexual act, for money?
• Are you a giver or receiver? (innuendo intentional)
• Have you ever been heart broken? By whom?
Besides these, get off the edge and get started at asking the intimate and embarrassing questions while playing the questions games. This is where we sign off! All the best!