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How to Cope When You are the Heartbreaker

Buzzle Staff Dec 1, 2018
It will hurt, and hurt like crazy. Breaking someone's heart is never easy. You gotta be strong, you gotta be firm. Don't get carried away; you have to think long-term!

It Ain’t Easier for the Heartbreaker!

You want the best for your ex; you want him to be happy. It's not easy to see him move on. Some part of you will feel that he should keep on crying for you, not let go or move on so easily. But if you really love him, you'll be happy for him.

Acceptance is the Key...

Whether you break someone's heart or your heart gets broken, the most important thing is to understand that the relationship is over. You did what you had to, there was no other option.

Letting Go is Hard

Chuck the Guilt

You'll feel guilty and really bad. But if you've given the relationship a fair chance and still aren't happy, it's not your fault. So stop feeling guilty! Relationships don't fail because of one person, and so they can't work cause of only one person either.

Not My Fault!

It's easy to blame the other person, but in doing that you only insult your relationship. You're literally dropping a bomb, so expect anger, defensiveness, and aggression. Make things easier by being direct, clear, and sensitive, thus ending things in a mature way.

Am Going Away...

In most breakups, one person falls out of love, while the other may still be crazily in love. But you've made your decision, so don't turn back. You can't move on if you don't accept that the relationship is over.

Time Mends Things

As cliched as it may sound, time does heal most wounds. And sometimes, you just have to live with the scar. The pain lessens with time. It may take a few days or even years, because you just can't decide to stop loving someone.

There's Happiness Ahead

You'll find love and so will they. This belief is very important, and will immensely help you while coping with the breakup. You deserve happiness and love. You cannot keep someone happy all your life if you've fallen out of love.

Let the Heart Heal

You'll be blamed for breaking someone's heart. Don't overthink, let time heal your wounds. It is the most effective potion you can get.

Love Lasts Forever...

Choose Happiness

Though it's tough to move on after a breakup, we hope that the mentioned tips will help you cope up with one and let go.