It is not typical of a girl to just approach the guy who she likes and ask him out. Thus, more often than not, the guy is absolutely clueless about the girl's feeling. Although, some girls may go a little overboard and try to get their point across by flirting or seducing the guy. While some guys may doubt your motive and stay away, others may just try to get advantage of you instead of initiating a beautiful relationship.
The good news is that, as a girl you have certain advantages when it comes to dating game. You can subtly make you intentions clear and not get rejected. Most guys are just too polite to rebuke a girl they are not interested in. The worst that can happen is, the guy may get on with someone else while still being friendly to you. Nonetheless, you will at least derive the satisfaction from trying. In fact, the guy may respond in a positive way if you go about it in a right way. So, what is the trick when it comes to getting a guy to notice you? Well, you are about to find out.
How to Get a Guy to Notice You If He Doesn't Know You
So you have been just eying this hottie in school library or sports field, but cannot muster courage to walk up to him and strike a conversation. In that case, you ought to follow our useful tips on how to get a guy's attention when he is oblivious to your existence!
Flash Him a Smile
The next time you see this guy, please do not hide behind your locker door or seek refuge in an empty classroom. Instead, walk straight and flash the guy your sweetest smile. Do not get disheartened if he misses you completely, and repeat the trick the next time. Chances are, even though he might not have noticed you, his buddies might tell him about you. So, the next time around, he will definitely take pains to look at you. You should save your best smile for this exact moment.
Strike a Conversation
If you have exchanged smiles with the guy you like a few times, this should give you a reason good enough to walk up to him and strike a conversation. Start with a simple 'hi' and introduce yourself. If you happen to be in same class or school, you can discuss your subjects. If you work at the same place, you can ask him to help you with some work-related query. If he just happens to be a random guy, you can still make a small talk about some general things.
Know Him Better
Try to find as much information about the guy you like as possible, without actually stalking him. See what he does after school or work and get to know more about his routine. Remember, do this as discretely as possible, else you will scare him away. If he goes to a gym or a morning jog, you might as well 'accidentally' drop at this place and appropriately marvel at the 'pleasant coincidence'.
How to Get a Guy to Notice You If You are Friends with Him
Now, the guy obviously knows you well, but does not 'notice' you the way you want him to. Got my point? Well, he may only take you for a friend, but simply refuses to look beyond it. In that case, it is very essential to break that 'friends only' barrier. How? With the help of these effective tips.
Change Your Dressing Style
One of the easiest ways to get noticed by a guy, for that matter anyone, is by changing your dressing style. Shop for a few trendy outfits that complement your personality. Get a new haircut or dye your hair in a new color. If you must, you can go for a complete image makeover. However, we recommend being subtle and tactful.
Listen Intently to Him
Maintain an eye contact when you speak to the guy you like. Most importantly, listen carefully to him while he talks. Nod appreciatively and smile at appropriate places. Use all your feminine charm on him while interacting with him. He will most likely notice the change in your behavior.
Spend Some Alone Time with Him
If you have always met your crush in a group, you ought to change it by finding some way of meeting him alone. You might come with an excuse that your friend ditched you to a concert and now you have ended up with an extra pass. Ask him gently, if he would like to come with you. You might even ask him to accompany you on some personal business trip on the other side of town (pretend you do not know the directions to the place).
Touch Him Innocently yet Deliberately
If you are all alone with your crush, make the best of this opportunity. Touch his arm and point him to something at the other side of the road, hold his hand while crossing the road, pretend to pick a stray leaf from his hair or just ruffle his hair playfully when he says something funny. These gestures are unlikely to go unnoticed even by the most preoccupied of guys.
These tips should effectively get you noticed. If the guy still remains oblivious to your feelings, he is probably not worth it. In that case, you might as well move on and start afresh. However, if he does respond positively, act sensibly and only then take things to next level.