Ever heard, what you see, is what you desire and what you walk towards, becomes yours eventually? Love is something like that! Don't you plan your investments to get the best returns? Don't you save up to buy the house of your dreams? And don't you make lesson plans to top your graduation? The common denominator of all these, is, a plan.
If a plan, could make your dreams come true, then what's wrong now? A plan is all that it's going to take, to get the man of your dreams. A little change in the attitude and with a perfect plan, let's get started to answer this question.
The initial stage or the first week, you will need to work on yourself. After all, one always has a price to pay. So, if you want to get a guy who is artistic, sensitive, financially and emotionally secure, spiritual, giving, honest, politically aware and educated, you too will have to put your best foot forward.
On a piece of paper, write down your wish list (the kind of man you want to be with) and on the other side, write down, the changes you have to make within yourself. Work on your strengths, good qualities, your attitude and try to incorporate the qualities of your dream man. This way your search will be easier.
Stop complaining about, 'there-aren't-any-good-men-around'. If that's the case, then you haven't been looking hard enough. Grilling working hours leave little room for hanging out with friends. But, now that you want the man of your dreams, you've got to make the effort.
You can never know the depth of the water, without jumping in it. With options galore, take a plunge and start dating. Don't fear getting hurt or losing.
Once you start dating, know what to expect from the person, you are dating. You may be looking for your soulmate and future together. But all the idyllic imaginings will come to an end, once the man in the relationship, realizes he wants otherwise.