We live in a very fragile and vulnerable world. Though we're witnessing rapid evolution every day, we are still humans who make the same silly mistakes we made yesterday. We have machines to take care of almost everything and correct most of the wrong we do. Then, why don't we invent a machine that would deal with all our relationship issues and make them disappear? Unfortunately, there is no such machine yet, and we have to deal with our problems on our own. We all have regrettable mistakes that we wish to rectify, and no matter what we do, we can't. Losing someone you love is no different.
If you want your ex to want you back, there are some important things that you need to remember. Before you rush out and do everything in your power to get him back, think for one second as to why you broke up in the first place. Obviously, your partner doesn't want to date the same you. So, it's very necessary that you try to become a better person. You're not a bad person now, but making a few changes for someone you love is worth the effort.
How to be Desirable in your Ex's Eyes
Be careful that you don't repeat the mistakes that drove your ex away from you in the first place. Breakups are personal and very difficult to deal with. However, implementing the following tips never fail to make a good first impression in front of your ex.
Everyone is flawed. Everyone. However, when someone else has to pay for your flaws, the situation gets a little troublesome. They either try to change you or go away from you ... both options not in your favor. To retain the love of your life, if you have to change for the better, why not? Again, don't do it blindly. However, if the expectation is reasonable, don't think twice. Show your ex you are capable of change.
Give Time to Your Ex
A few months after your break up, the negative feelings that you have for each other fade away. It is very important that you give him this time. When he's angry, no matter how much sense you make, his anger will blindfold him and his thoughts. Instead, let time do the talking. May be he'll even start missing you a little. In the meantime, don't deliberately crowd his thoughts. However, at the same time, let him know you're still in love with him.
Make it Work
You need effort to make anything and everything work. Your relationship is no different. Do things for him. Once in a while, send him a text, reminding him of sweet nothings you'll shared before. Send him a flower with a sorry note. It's very important that you don't overdo these things. Keep all these gestures once-in-a-while reminders.
Also, talk to your ex about letting go. If both of you are going to get more love by staying together, letting go of fights is the better option.