If you suspect infidelity from your spouse, but have no evidence to support it, you can try and confirm your doubts by keeping a check. A cheating spouse may never agree to your accusations, even if they are true, unless and until you back them up with some real proof. Let us look at some tips by which you can find out if you have a cheating partner.
Look for Signs of Cheating
Before spying your spouse, look for signs of cheating to be sure that he or she is actually doing what you suspect. Some of the commonest signs are:
- Your spouse has suddenly started making efforts to look good, he or she is working over time but their salary is still the same.
- He/she does not let you near their cell phone.
- He/she does not wear the wedding ring anymore, has a different perfume smell emanating from the body, there are bruises on the body or lipstick marks on clothes.
- If your spouse keeps condoms or birth control pills in their purse/car etc. which you are not aware of.
If a few or all of these signs are displayed by the person you are in a relationship with, it is a possibility that they might be cheating. In such a scenario, there are a number of things that you can do for spying on them.
If your spouse is actually seeing someone else, he or she will surely meet their lover at least once in a week and thus, can be caught by the investigator.
Take help from Friends and Family
If your budget is limited, then instead of hiring a professional, take help from your friends and family to tackle this issue. You can ask them to keep a track of your husband by following him one by one, at different times, throughout the day. This way, you can keep a constant track of his/her whereabouts.
Another one is "mobile spy", a software with whose help you can have access to SMS messages as well as the call details of their phone. This software can even track the GPS of your spouse's phone every half an hour, thus informing you about his location.
To keep a track on your spouse's computer usage, there's a software program called "keystroke logger" which will provide you with complete information on what your spouse is typing or looking at in his computer.
Here's hoping that these tips will prove useful to you. If your husband/wife is indeed cheating and you find concrete evidence, the next step would be to tell him that you know of his infidelity. Seeking counseling to restore the relationship are the two possibilities in such a scenario.