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Law of Attraction and Relationships

Shalu Bhatti Nov 22, 2018
Wondering if something known as a "perfect relationship" exists? Read ahead to understand the connection between the law of attraction and relationships, and how you can use it to get what your heart desires.
Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life's coming attractions. - Albert Einstein
If you have read or seen the movie, "The Secret", and, if you understand the law of attraction, you would know how you can be the creator of your own future and the things you want in it, including your relationship. Many of us will not believe the next statement, "You have attracted everything that you have in your life today."
Well, now you'll say that you never wanted to be miserable in life, or lose your job, or be in a bad relationship, or simply be alone. Well, the answer is, yes, you did, in your thoughts! The law of attraction says that, We are like magnets - like attract like. You become AND attract what you think.
It is important to have control on your thoughts, as every thought releases into the universe and prepares to act accordingly. So, even if you have pondered over some negative thoughts over and over, be it in the form of a discussion, or imagining yourself to be in that place, it still plays a role in attracting these things towards you.

How Does the Law of Attraction for Relationships Work?

If you turn it over to the universe, you will be surprised and dazzled by what is delivered .. this is where magic and miracles happen. - The Secret
All you need to do is, leave it to the universe. How do you do that? The only thing you need to be careful about is, what you think; because everything that you think, emits a signal to the universe, and then the universe responds to it by giving you what you thought. The universe doesn't understand "good thoughts" and "bad thoughts".
Universe just understands vibrations that come from your thoughts, be it good or bad. Now you'll say, "It's ridiculous! I mean now you'll have to control your thoughts, they just come and go." It's not about just random thoughts, it's about the thoughts that keep on re-occurring in your head, thoughts that disturb you, and thoughts that make you upset.
Now you will say that with so much of negativity in the world, how can you not be a part of it? Well, you will have to learn to leave your habit of 'pondering' over the negativity around, including your relationships. Here are some tips that will help you know exactly how the law of attraction will work for your relationships.

Be Clear of What You Want

You can begin feeling whatever you want (even if it's not there)... the universe will correspond to the nature of your song. - The Secret
Most of us are not really clear of what we want in a relationship, be it the kind of person we want to be with, or the kind of relationship we want. At one time, we want someone who looks amazing, and later on, we just look for someone who can understand and accept us the way we are.
No matter what you are looking for in a relationship, give it a good thought, and be clear, so that mixed vibrations are not emitted out to the universe. The more unclear you are about what you want, the more complicated your life gets. This step is the basis of what you believe, what you shall ask, and what you will eventually receive.

Write the Final Verdict

Write down the things you like most about them (don't expect to change from them). Law of attraction will not put you in the same space together if your frequencies don't match. - The Secret
Once you have clearly thought over the kind of relationship that you want in life, the next step is to write down the final verdict that you are about to emit through your thoughts into the universe.
Writing down will help you feel strongly convinced about the idea, and put an end to further changes in your thoughts about the same. And as soon as you're clearly and strongly convinced, the universe will start responding to your desires.

Live the Thought!

Create a Vision Board .. pictures of what you want to attract .. every day look at it and get into the feeling state of already having acquired these wants. - The Secret
By 'start living the thoughts', think as if you have already met the person that you wish to be with, start focusing on positive thinking, start releasing strong positive thoughts as if you are living the kind of relationship that you have always desired. If you are single, try to incorporate your surroundings in sync with your thoughts.
For example, "The Secret" states a story of a man who was handsome, successful, had lots of relationships, but not a steady one. He always wanted to have a steady relationship with his dream woman, but somehow was unable to find her.
He had a painting of a woman in his house, in which the woman looked away from him in arrogance, instead of looking towards him; and this was the painting that he drew himself! Once he was advised about the law of attraction, he drew a painting which had the kind of woman he would want to be with and in this painting, this woman was looking at him with love.
He made his surroundings synchronize with what he wanted, and after some time got the kind of woman that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with; now they are in a steady and 'happy' relationship.

Avoid Upsetting Thoughts

Write your script. When you see things you don't want, don't think about them, write about them, talk about them, push against them, or join groups that focus on the don't wants ... remove your attention from don't wants .. and place them on do wants. - The Secret
The human mind always welcomes random thoughts and with so many broken relationships around, we always keep on wondering 'what would happen to us if we were in a situation like that'? We think about such imaginary situations repeatedly. You must have realized by now how what you perceive as 'harmless thinking', can 'harm' the way you live.
Focus only on what you want in your relationship. Are you thinking about what you should do if the negative thoughts occur in your mind? Well, as per the law of attraction, an affirmative thought is 100 times more powerful than a negative one! So don't worry about random thoughts if you are doing a good job at diverting your thoughts on 'what you want'.

How and When? No worries

Our job is not to worry about the 'How'. The 'How' will show up out of the commitment and belief in the 'what'. - The Secret
The given quote is self-explanatory. A human mind is always curious about how things will happen and when they will happen. 'How' and 'when' always give room for doubts in our minds which emit a negative signal in the universe; which in turn, prevents things to fall in the right place for you. Try to believe in the law of attraction.
The given quote will answer the when and how,

HOW LONG??? No rules on time .. the more aligned you are with positive feelings the quicker things happen! - The Secret

Love Yourself

It's important to feel good ( ( ( (((good))) ) ) ) - The Secret

Feel good about yourself and the things that are around you. It is important to be thankful for what you have in your life.
Feel and experience the beauty and the goodness within you. Most of us wish to find someone who can introduce us to our inner self, to our happy and beautiful self. But the LOA states that it is very important for you to love yourself, for others to fall in love with you.
Let go of all the negative insecurities and doubts that you have about yourself. If you feel that there is something in you that needs a positive change, work on it! Think and believe that you are worth everything you wish to have, and the universe will send someone who thinks the same.
You don't require anything except for affirm and positive thoughts. You can have everything you want, you can be everything you want to be. The Law of attraction can not only help you be a part of successful relationships, but it can help you become successful in all aspects of your life, including financial success.
The Law of attraction works without fail because, the universe likes SPEED. Don't delay, don't second-guess, don't doubt... You are the creator of your own world when your thoughts are backed by a strong belief. Start -- by ACTING NOW!