First, make sure if your partner is actually cheating on you or is it just your misunderstanding. Here are some signs that you need to look out for to make sure your accusations are correct.
Signs of Infidelity
It is very difficult to deal with the situation, when you come to know that your partner is cheating you. You would notice some emotional and behavioral changes in your partner. There are certain signs that point to your partner's infidelity.
It is also possible that there may be a very little sex or no sex at all. Physical attraction plays an important role in maintaining a healthy relationship. Your partner keeps on giving some excuses to avoid the sex. Your sexual life is one of the important areas, where you can get the clear signs of cheating.
You will notice that your partner is spending too much money. He/she tends to avoid showing the bills or not accounting for the expenses.
There are some definite changes in your partner's attitude and mood. He/she may be indifferent to family events such as holidays or birthdays, and doesn't want to do anything with you or go anywhere.
You will notice some remarkable changes in your partner's daily routine. You will find some odd things such as a greeting card or a gift in the car.
You will notice some extreme changes in your partner's appearance. He/she starts to take a new interest in appearance and clothing. He/she smells of different cologne or soap.
Your partner will encourage you to spend more time with your friends or go alone for a trip. He/she may start a new hobby or may talk about the movies that you had never seen together.
When you will find all these indications of cheating, start further investigations. Control your emotions and try to deal with it in a calm and composed manner.