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Signs of Cheating in a Relationship

Reshma Jirage Nov 18, 2018
Before drawing out a conclusions whether your partner is cheating on you or not, you need to confirm your doubts by keeping a check on his/her actions.
It is possible that at one point in life, you might begin to suspect that your partner is not loyal to you or is cheating on you. It may be a very embarrassing situation, but don't get panicky or frustrated.
First, make sure if your partner is actually cheating on you or is it just your misunderstanding. Here are some signs that you need to look out for to make sure your accusations are correct.

Signs of Infidelity

It is very difficult to deal with the situation, when you come to know that your partner is cheating you. You would notice some emotional and behavioral changes in your partner. There are certain signs that point to your partner's infidelity.
You will notice a lack of intimacy between the two of you. There might be sexual attachment, but less emotional attachment, for example, a decline in cuddling, touching, kissing, or holding hands.
There may be less communication between you. He/she may not be ready to spend much time together. Of course, it may also be due to excessive workload. But you should make sure about it.
It is also possible that there may be a very little sex or no sex at all. Physical attraction plays an important role in maintaining a healthy relationship. Your partner keeps on giving some excuses to avoid the sex. Your sexual life is one of the important areas, where you can get the clear signs of cheating.
You will realize that your partner suddenly needs privacy, especially regarding his/her cell phone. Your partner may avoid answering the phone when you are nearby, or take the call to another room. Getting the calls at odd hours can be another sign of infidelity.
You will experience that arguments are becoming petty and frequent. Your partner is getting angry with you over some trifle issues.
You will notice that your partner is spending too much money. He/she tends to avoid showing the bills or not accounting for the expenses.
There are some definite changes in your partner's attitude and mood. He/she may be indifferent to family events such as holidays or birthdays, and doesn't want to do anything with you or go anywhere.
You will notice some remarkable changes in your partner's daily routine. You will find some odd things such as a greeting card or a gift in the car.
You will notice some extreme changes in your partner's appearance. He/she starts to take a new interest in appearance and clothing. He/she smells of different cologne or soap.
Your partner will encourage you to spend more time with your friends or go alone for a trip. He/she may start a new hobby or may talk about the movies that you had never seen together.
When you will find all these indications of cheating, start further investigations. Control your emotions and try to deal with it in a calm and composed manner.