Love letters for her may sound easy to write, but for others, it’s an insurmountable task to translate feelings into words. How do you tell her how much you care about her? How do you make it sound sincere while also not being too dramatic or vulnerable? But still somewhat vulnerable? The tight-rope you have to walk to write the perfect love letter would make any guy queasy.
However, if you know that she would love a love letter and you want to write her one, we have you covered. The complexities of writing a love letter even compound since your strategy has to change depending on how long you’ve been together and what you want to say. Therefore, we’ll try to cover the basics no matter what your intentions are.
Why Does She Love Letters So Much?
In order to understand how to write a love letter, you need a basic understanding of why she’s going to love it so much. Whether you live in the same house or you’ve been separated for a while, a love letter is sure to make her swoon. But why?
People – women and men – love to have their lover’s feelings affirmed. Think about that cute picture she sent you or the text where she told you she loved you. You keep those and look at them over and over again because affirmation feels good. It makes you feel safe in your relationship. Love letters achieve this and more.
They serve as reminders of your love, something she can keep and cherish. It is a way more significant gesture than a text or email. Love letters are thus something that she’s going to keep, maybe forever. So, no pressure, but this is why it has to be good!
A Brief Guide to Writing Love Letters
Here are our recommendations for exactly how to make this love letter count.
Firstly, get to the point quickly at the beginning of the letter. Start with, “I’ve been thinking about you every day and I just wanted to tell you how much I love you.” Don’t make her wonder what the tone of the letter will be.
Then as you write the letter, use aspects of your relationship to your advantage. Mention a romantic time you had together or something cute and unique about her that you remember. Tell her in detail how she looked to you once, as you looked at her from across the room. Tell her things that you love about her and think beyond the physical.
When you’re wrapping up your letter, reaffirm your affection for her. Make a statement of commitment and devotion like, “No matter what happens around us, I know things will be alright because I have you. My love for you will never change.” She should leave your letter knowing exactly how you feel.
The Takeaway for Husbands and Boyfriends
Love letters for her can strengthen your relationship or help you form them. Just remember that sincere, personal memories and compliments are the way to her heart. You may not know a lot about writing but you should know a lot about her. That’s your secret weapon for making this letter soar.