Love messages can help you kindle love while you’re separated from your partner. They can also keep your love strong even when you’re in the same house all the time. Whether you surprise him or her with an affectionate love message or regularly send them by mail or text to the person you love, you need to know how to write them well. You want your message to hit the gooey center of their heart and reaffirm what makes your relationship great.
Here are a few tips on how to write great love messages, with examples. Whether you’re writing for a man or woman, what matters much more is understanding your man or woman’s personality. Tailoring your love messages to what you know about your partner is the secret.
Mushy Messages
Normally, a mushy love message works better going from husband to wife. However, this isn’t always the case! You can send a simple message like, “Every day, I love you more.” You could make it cute with, “Morning sunshine! I knew you were up when I noticed the light outside 😊”
You know your special someone. Leave a message that makes them smile.
A Note on Husbands
The notes above aren’t typically the best things to leave a husband – it’s more for husbands to give to a loving wife. The kinds of things men specifically love to hear might be more like, “You make me feel so safe and happy. I can’t wait to see you tonight!” This is partly a cultural thing, partly a personality thing. However, only you know what’s best for your partner.
Go for Quotes
Maybe you don’t know what to say. Maybe she loves you for your looks, not your writing skills. Well, that’s okay! A well-placed love quote can do the trick when you don’t know what to say. However, we recommend trying your hardest to write something yourself first!
If you just can’t think of anything, choose a famous love quote like this one by Leo Christopher: “You are my today and all of my tomorrows.” It’s simple, but effective.
Love Messages as Letters
Maybe you have a lot of time on your hands and you want to turn your message into a full-blown love letter. If that’s the case, you should first understand that love letters must be personal, honest, and make their purpose known.
In other words, start the letter with what you want to say in miniature: “I was thinking about you and just wanted to tell you that I love you!” Let them know right away what to expect and then sprinkle in some relationship details, personal history, and cute little observations about your special someone. Letters to your lover don’t have to be complicated, but they do have to be personal.
Love Messages: The Takeaway
Love messages don’t have to be proclamations of undying affection. But that can be! You can tell a joke or tell her she’s your every day, your sunshine, your happiness. Figure out what your love needs to hear, and what you know they’ll love to hear. Then, actually writing the message should be easy after that.
