Sometimes, it is best to ask a guy a lot of questions in order to know him, instead of waiting for him to tell you his opinion on his own. Here’s a list of questions that will stretch his imagination and make him introspect for satisfactory answers.
Secrecy is a characteristic that defines many men. And if your man is someone who holds this trait close to him, then asking questions can help you get a great deal out of him. You may think, that, with time he would open up about his feelings to you. But let me tell you, that inherently secret people look out for ways to hold on to their feelings tighter and tighter with increasing familiarity. With their biggest fear being judged upon they’d do everything to guard even the silliest things about their life with their life.
100 Questions to Ask a Guy Friend
- What is your favorite book?
- What are your financial plans for the future?
- What is your goal in life?
- Describe yourself in three words?
- What do you think are your weaknesses?
- Who is your hero?
- What would you do on your first date?
- If you were the President for a day, what would you change in the world?
- How would you make your first date different from any other?
- What country would you choose for a honeymoon? Why?
- What according to you is the perfect life?
- What do you do when you are bored?
- What experiences have marked you the most?
- What has been the most important decision in your life?
- If you could change the past, what would you change?
- Do you believe in God? If yes then why and if no, then why?
- How and when would you know the right person for you?
- What is it that you don’t like about me?
- At what age do you plan to get married?
- Who was your first girlfriend?
- Do you still have feelings for an ex?
- What is the biggest lie you’ve ever told someone?
- What types of desserts do you enjoy eating?
- Are you an outdoorsy person or do you like to be inside doing activities instead?
- Which is your favorite song?
- Do you smoke?
- Do you drink alcoholic beverages at all?
- Do you have special spiritual beliefs?
- Are you a religious person or a spiritual person?
- If time travel was possible, which year would you like to visit?
- What is your job all about if you have one?
- What is the best part about your job?
- Where do you want to be in 50 years?
- Which is your favorite cartoon character?
- What has been the biggest challenge of your life?
- If you won the jackpot on a lottery what is the first thing you would do with it
- Has any event in your life just blown you away? If so what was it?
- If you could be the world leader you want to be, who would you be?
- If you are an author, what book would you write?
- If you could choose any career you want, what would you choose?
- If you could choose anyone to be your husband or wife, who would it be?
- If you could speak any language you want to speak, what would it be?
- If you could live in any period in history, what would it be?
- If you could play any instrument you choose, what would it be?
- What sort of professional publications or associations do you recommend?
- What kind of growth or job outlook do you anticipate during the next 5 years?
- If you could work for anyone you choose, who would it be?
- If you could work in any company in the world, what would it be?
- If you could start your own restaurant, what would it be?
- If you could start any company you want, what would it be?
- Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
- If you can do it all over again, would you still pick the same career? Why or why not?
- Can you recommend anyone else for me to talk with to learn more about your field?
- What was your dream career when you were a child?
- Were you the “nice” kid or “bad” kid when you were in grade school?
- What was your favorite subject when you were in school and why?
- Who was your favorite teacher when you were in college and why?
- What was your favorite candy or snack when you were a child?
- What was your favorite cartoon or comic when you were growing up?
- What was your favorite sport when you were growing up?
- What was your first computer when you were growing up?
- Do you keep in touch with your friends in school?
- What was the last concert you have attended? Did you like it?
- What was the highlight of your last vacation?
- What time did you have to go to bed when you were a child?
- Did you have curfew when you were a child?
- What is your most memorable experience ever?
- From a scale of 0 to 10, how do you find this event?
- From a scale of 0 to 10, how do you find this venue?
- How often do you come to event like this?
- Do you know anyone at this event?
- Have you met anyone interesting at this event?
- Do you know any other event similar to this coming up?
- Have you been to any other events hosted by this organization or person?
- If you could talk to anyone in the room right now, who would you talk to and why?
- Can you introduce me to this person?
- What is the best way to leave this venue?
- What is your favorite magazine and why?
- What is the last book you just read and did you like it?
- What is your favorite movie and why?
- What is the last movie you just saw and did you like it?
- What is your favorite song and why?
- Who is your favorite artist and why?
- Who is your favorite actor or actress and why?
- What is your favorite activity and why?
- What is your favorite holiday and why?
- What is your favorite vacation spot and why?
- What is your favorite drink and why?
- What is your favorite bar and why?
- What is your favorite color and why?
- What is your favorite place you have traveled to and why?
- Where would you go for your next vacation (if money is not a concern)?
- Are you an art person or a sport person?
- Are you a dog or cat person?
- What do you do when you have a day off?
- Do you sing in the shower?
- What is that one thing that you will never tell anybody?(I love this one!)
- What is your most visited website?
- When was the last time you cried?
- If these were your last five minutes on Earth what would you spend them doing?
If you ask these questions bluntly, you will never get an answer. Timing them perfectly is the key to get the things out of him. He needs to feel at ease while answering the questions as compared to feeling interrogated.
