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Great Conversation Starters With a Guy

Parul Solanki Sep 29, 2018
If you are unable to strike an "intelligent" conversation or think of something witty to say the moment you spotted a good-looking guy; which can be "hair-pullingly" frustrating; read on to know the witty tips about how to cash on that moment with a an impressive conversation.
"A man's character may be learned from the adjectives which he habitually uses in conversation."
― Mark Twain
So for all those girls who are faced with mild anxiety attacks or debilitating panic attacks at the mere thought of facing the situation, here are some great conversation starters with a guy.

Be generous with compliments

If you find a guy with a great haircut or a really cool and stylish shirt, compliment him for it. This is a good conversation starter and even guys like their vanities to be gratified.
The only thing to keep in mind though is that do not dish out compliments if the guy is wearing the ugliest shirt in the world, unless of course, you are like the best actress in the world and can hide the disgust off your face.

In a Bookstore

A prime place to meet those serious-looking, adorably cute guys is a bookstore. So when you are scanning all the bookshelves and notice a great-looking guy just next to you, look all interested and ask for a book by some person called, 'Tom what's-his-name'.
When he hasn't heard of such a book you can just ask him to recommend the raciest new mystery book on the shelf. If he is reading a page from a book, you can always ask him if the book is any good. Asking a question about something that interests both of you can get you going really fast.

At a Party

If your dream man has you mesmerized at a party, then you can strike a conversation by going all psychic. Read a few of your pal's palms, and then ask him if he'd like you to read his. 
Or, if you find him standing with some of his non-female buddies, then go mingle with them. If you are helping out in the kitchen, the next time the guy saunters in to get a beer, turn to him for help to open a jar of olives or bottle of wine or anything that your dainty hands cannot unlock!

At a Bar

In a bar, ask the totally hot guy standing near the jukebox if he has change for a dollar, and then sweetly inquire if he'll help you select a few songs.
Or, while he's waiting for his turn in the midst of a pool game, tell a sharp shooter that you and your friend have wagered a beer on who will win, and he'd better not let you down.

At the Gym

At a gym, compliment a cool-looking stud on his awesome, state-of-the-art athletic shoes and ask him where he bought them from, or ask a guy doing his crunches the best move to attain six-pack abs.

In a Coffee Shop

Check out what your guy is doing at the coffee shop.
If he has the latest laptop, just ask him to tell you about the configuration as you are planning to buy one. Or, stand by him in line for coffee and debate out loud, which brew to order.
Something like "Do I want a skim latte with a shot of hazelnut or Is the caramel cappuccino good?" Then gently tap his shoulder and ask what you should get. He's sure to offer some good advice.

Come Up with Your Own

Although these ideas may work out great, sometimes the best thing to do in the spur of the moment is to come up with your very own funny conversation starter. All you need to do is observe the person, and come up with the first thing that pops into your head.
Well, we hope these ideas for conversation starters with a guy will get you started. Believe me, there are no right or wrong approaches; your conversation starter should be based on the situations. So what are you waiting for? Go ahead and give it a shot!