The mystery of his love is unbearably tough for you to solve. However, not anymore. Here are a few tips or signs that he loves you, to help you unscramble the puzzle of your heart.
He loves you, he loves you not, he loves you, or may be he loves you a lot. It’s difficult to know whether he is in love with you or whether he just likes you (and there’s a big difference between the two). You wake up thinking of him and can’t sleep because the thoughts about him are flying at the speed of light in your mind.
From dawn to dusk you can’t help but dwell in his thoughts. But does he feel the same? Does he love you as much as you love him? If you really want to figure out whether this man of your dreams loves you, you will have to spend some time in observing him. A keen observation of signs that he loves you, can help you in deciphering his state of mind.
Obvious Signs that Say He Loves You
He will be with you. Straight and simple. If he is in love with you, he will do everything in his capacity to be with you. A sign that you must notice is, a man marks his territory, by being with you constantly. He does so, because he wants the world to know that he will be with you, no matter what you do, where you go, he’ll just be there with you. We humans are animals too, this exactly what a pet in love with his master would do. This might be a wild comparison, nonetheless, it is true.
The next sign he is in love, is, his undaunted try at flirting with you. His overtly sweet behavior, his caring attitude, and beguiling flirting ways are his way of showing you how much he cares. It takes a lot for a man to show his caring, loving, and ‘I am interested’ side to a woman.
Men love closeness and the sense of touch as much as we women do. If this guy in question, holds your hand and entwines his fingers into yours, then this is a sign he loves you more than a friend. When a man touches you this way, it is his way of showing that he will protect you and will hold your hand if you ever fall. He may also keep making physical contact, such as mischievously touching your hand while handing you a drink, or while taking something from your hand to let you know that he likes you.
He will introduce you to his friends, his family, and his relatives. He will do so, to make you a part of his social network, which means the world to him. Introducing you to his parents, is a way of solidifying his relationship with you. It’s a way of showing you, that now you are a part of his world. Meeting the people who are important to him, is a sure sign that he really loves you a lot.
On the Flip Side
The man in question may show you all these signs and then suddenly he may refrain from all of it. This is because men fear rejection. He may suddenly get detached from you and make you wonder why. This is so because, he loves you and is scared of losing you, by overdoing his act. At such a point, if you too are in love with him, assure him and give him his space.
Ways to tell if a guy likes you is difficult since every guy is different than the other and the signs will differ too. This phase of your life, when every day is a maze to reach out to your love in secrecy and with hidden agendas, is great fun. Enjoy it while it lasts, because someday the love would be in the air, without any games of hide and seek. Good luck!