Flirting is definitely an art and if you are thinking, 'Omigosh! Flirting and me! I don't really flirt!', then you would be lying surely. Well, in that case, most people don't really know how to flirt and probably are too scared to admit that! For some, it comes with experience and for the rest, it is just an 'inborn talent' as they may proudly proclaim! If you are a novice at it, then dude, it's time you sit up and take notice of what's happening around you!
This would give you a clue to all the signs of flirting that are going around and hey! You may even pick up some pointers. They can be subtle to the most obvious kinds, and to know about signs that a woman is flirting or signs that a man is at it would take some 'scientific research' and practical experience as well! After all, practice makes a man (and even a woman) perfect! But for the beginners to the game of love, I am hoping to enlighten you with some ways to know the various signs, which may be a blind spot to your eye!
Tried and Tested Methods
Need to know whether that cute guy in your class is flirting with you or is it your imagination that is playing tricks on you? To know about signs that a man is interested may not really be too tough, but one needs to be really sure before you take any step that might get you into any embarrassing situation.
Always observe his body posture. Okay, we know he may be a hunk and all that, but you need to observe and find out to know about any sign that may spell good news for you. Does he unnecessarily lean towards you or stare at you from across the floor? If he holds your gaze every time you look at him, then he's definitely going for you!
If you are already on talking terms and you find him calling you up many times during the day, complimenting you more than necessary, then you can take it as a definite sign of flirting. After all, in such cases, he wouldn't be bothered to know how you felt; he would plague you throughout the week to get a date on Saturday night.
The more obvious varieties of men wink, raise eyebrows and even blow kisses openly to flirt! Guys can be very cheeky at times as well, if this guy on the beach is interested in you, he will walk up and down and pass you several times in the hope of striking an interesting conversation.
Besides, you would definitely know if a guy is interested when he takes you out for dinner and he makes eye contact with this interesting woman on the table next to yours! In that case, girls, this guy is definitely a flirt and you would be better off without such men, if you are looking for a relationship that is for keeps.
If you are really confused whether the cute gal next door is truly interested in you or is simply being cordial every time you go off to work, then you do really need to know about certain signs of flirting a woman may use. To know about flirting signs a woman may use can be little difficult for some men, as most women tend to be subtle in their approach.
Check out her Gaze
If you notice her at this party and she seems to be laughing about and having a good time with her friends, yet she catches your gaze often, then it could mean she is waiting for you to break the ice. If she gives you a genuine smile, then you have already scored some genuine brownie points with her! If she keeps crossing your path to go to the bar counter or to the other side of the room frequently, then she is surely trying to catch your attention!
Watch out for her body language. And that does not mean staring at her hourglass figure; if you do that you might just end the story before it begins! Does she twirl her hair more often whilst you talk to her? If she subconsciously preening herself whilst you have a word with her, she is sending you an invitation to flirt as well!
Besides, she may be checking you out as well; if a woman is interested, she is bound to give you a glance over if she finds you attractive. She may draw closer to you when you are in deep conservation with her. This may be a way to create more intimacy between the both of you. Does she ask you about your hobbies and interests and pay you compliments?
Women are not always very generous about compliments and if you have one coming your way although you barely know her, she is just trying to get to know you better and create a comfortable environment to converse.
Be a keen observer to know about the various signs of flirting to find out if that girl/guy is really interested in you. And if you have hopefully found true love, work your way around it and have a relationship that's for keeps!