It is good to notice and appreciate the little or big things that our partner does for us. No matter where you are in your relationship journey, our partners never stop desiring to be loved and cherished by us. Thankfully, words of affirmation were invented just so that you could express your love beautifully in simple words. So, let’s go through these words of beauty, love, and compassion that everybody wants to hear more often than not!!
“I can live for two months on a good compliment.”
― Mark Twain
Every now and then, we want our partners to make us feel special through words or action, but action is not always possible right? Simple words can affect an individual so much. Take for example when we are at work, and our boss praises us for excellent work, how wonderful and motivated we feel. We are ready to go the extra mile just to get that pat on the back again.
Similarly, when in a relationship every girlfriend or wife wants their beloved to praise them for something that they did for them. However, daily affirmations are not required because we could get used to them praising us everyday, and honestly, it won’t mean anything to you after a while. An affirmation is a sort of appreciation, showing gratitude for even the smallest of things each partner does.
It can be as simple as, “I Love You”, or you can do something special for your beau. Guys, generally, are not that expressive by nature so don’t expect them to constantly use a line or two to thank you. However, when they express their feelings, they leave no stone unturned to sweep you off your feet.
Love language For Your Wife
Every love song I wrote is for you.
I still fall for you everyday.
You never fail to amaze me.
If I know what love is, it is because of you.
My favorite place in all the world is next to you.
I love you to the moon and back.
Have you any idea just how much I love you?
You are very cute sleeping. You are perfect my angel.
You make everything wonderful.
My sweetheart when you lay your head upon your pillow, please know how much I love you at this very moment.
Wherever you are, that’s where my home is.
My heart is perfect because you are inside.
You inhabit my soul.
When you walked into the room, you took my breath away.
I love it when you make green tea for me.
You look beautiful with open hair.
I respect you for loving me unconditionally.
You are such a wonderful wife.
I’ve learned a lot from you.
Love language For Your Husband
I just love being with you.
I am grateful our kids have such an excellent role model.
Thank you for being a faithful husband (and father).
You have helped me to become a better woman.
I am one blessed woman!
You’re my dream-come-true – you know that, don’t you?
You will always have my heart.
I’m proud to be your wife.
What a great job – that looks fantastic!
You are one handsome man.
I love how steady and stable you are . . . makes me feel secure.
You make me laugh even when I don’t want to smile.
You really are an incredibly decent man.
You are my theme for a dream.
I feel safe and warm whenever you cuddle me.
I love your sense of humor.
I love it when you surprise me at work.
I fell for you, the moment you hugged me.
I love to watch you be a dad.
I admire your strength to give up smoking.
Take Inspiration From Movies
“I vow to help you love life, to always hold you with tenderness and to have the patience that love demands.”―The Vow
“If you were a melody… I used only the good notes.”―The Holiday
“I think you are a very bright, very special woman.”― Pretty Woman
“You are, and always have been, my dream.”― The Notebook
“As he read, I fell in love the way you fall asleep: slowly, and then all at once.”― The Fault in Our Stars
“Maybe okay will be our always.”― The Fault in Our Stars
“Ever thine, ever mine, ever ours.”―Sex and the City
“I have never known anyone who actually believed that I was enough. Until I met you.”― Love and Other Drugs
“You are my dream now.”― Tangled
“You’re all that matters to me.”― Dear John
Messages on Baked Cookies
You can bake delicious and mouth-watering cookies, plus, you can personalize it with a message. Use creativity and write your message on top of the cookies with maybe, chocolate chips or various colors of cream toppings.
Surprise With Flowers
Another great way of using words of affirmation is to surprise him/her at work with flowers. You can personally go to deliver them, or just leave it at their desk with a message. If it’s their first day at office, you can write something that goes like this, Wish you luck for your first day.
You can take him/her for a romantic dinner to a place near the lake, or one where the moon lights it up. Pop some champagne and say those beautiful words. You can go down on your knees and express your feelings as well.
Stick Post-it Notes
This can’t get any better, surprise him/her with a post-it note. Write down small messages and stick it on the bathroom mirror. So, when he/she goes for a shower, she/he can read all your messages and feel good. Similarly, you can post messages at different places in your house, for e.g. in his/her closet, refrigerator, cereal bowl, car’s steering wheel.
Plan a Surprise Vacation
You can go for a vacation together, and arrange with the hotel authorities to decorate the room with flowers and candles in advance so that when he/she enters the room he/ she will be so surprised and squeak with joy and excitement.
Life and Death lies in the power of our tongue and it is really important as to what you say because it determines how your relationship will work. Also, you can come up with your own ideas and words. Use words that come directly from your heart!