Although nothing can replace the value of face-to-face communication, text messaging has become a phenomenon in the world of dating. More so, with people who love to play with words and enjoy sharing their thoughts, they are at ease in expressing themselves through typing. Flirty messages are the latest in the list of 'high-tech' dating that can create a significant difference in your dating plans.
Ideas and Tips✦ Once you get to know her/his phone number, don't start texting him/her immediately. Your first few messages, after a certain time period, must be purely value-based. Sprinkle some doses of flirt/humor/joke/joy, but don't overdo. Your first few messages must be such that he/she doesn't have to necessarily reply. Hilarious jokes are the best choice in the initial days.
✦ Don't forget to master and use the art of text message symbols. :-P, :-D, ;-), :-), xoxo, words in ALL CAPS―use all emoticons to your advantage.
✦ Exaggeration is an art, if used subtly. Make your conversation more rich by exaggerating! Instead of saying, 'I had a strawberry cake', say, 'It felt as if the 'God-of-cakes' came down to Earth to bake a cake for me, yummy..;-).
✦ Touch random subjects. Don't be drop-dead boring in saying something funny, off the beat, and cool. Instead of sending text messages revolving around her/him always, take breaks and discuss something different. For instance, ask about a movie etc., like 'Hey, saw Twilight 2day. What abt U? Which team r u in? Team Edward or team Jacob. BDW, Bella is cute?
✦ Make inside jokes, communication codes, and talk about common interests.
✦ Keep the conversation rich by not just replying but asking random questions.
✦ Don't use the name of the person always. Instead, use some small nicknames that are cute and the other person is comfortable in sharing.
✦ Remember, if you've got to rush for work or some urgent activity, tell her/him that you really had to tell something interesting but you have to leave. For instance, you can say, I hv2 leave ryt now. Vl catch u later and tell u something interesting:-);-). Promise ;-). Hope u don't mind."
✦ Give each other sufficient space and don't be obsessed about texting. And use good messages for special moments when you feel head over heels for her/him.
✦ Don't just make someone like you ONLY through texting. Romantic text messages are more required after you've met and known each other. Restrict SMS for later stages. Maintain a balance between text messaging and face-to-face interaction. Real chemistry can only be felt in person.
✦ Girls, you've got to ensure that you 'keep him guessing'. Don't let him be able to predict you easily. Similarly, guys too must not be very easily predictable.
Flirty Text Messages
Have fun and enjoy flirting, but remember to keep the balance. All the best!