He smiles at you and those gorgeous dimples appear; he calls out your name and there's a sparkle in his eyes; he talks to you and there is a genuine care in his voice. Does any of these mean that he likes you more than a friend? What is attraction? How can anyone tell if a guy or a girl is interested in someone?
These questions are so complicated that finding the right answers can be a grave task in itself. Love and relationship are something I am not a great expert at, but I have fallen in love with the most wonderful guy in the world. You may be wondering why am I talking about myself here instead of giving you tips on sure signs. There's a reason; if I just begin giving you ideas, hints, or signs without me ever being in love or been in a similar situation before, would you trust me?
So, back to what I was talking about. I got married to the first and only guy I ever truly loved. And guess what, he was my best friend (still is). It wasn't really easy for me to tell if he actually did care for me or wanted to be something more than friends. And if you're searching for advice or suggestions, then you too must be confused at the moment. Over the course of 3 months, our initial stages of friendship, we were strictly friends, nothing else. But later on, we started to develop feelings for one another; however couldn't be truthful about it. And since I already said to you that we are happily married to one another, you know that I was lucky enough to understand his signals.
The tricky element does begin here when two friends start liking each other and don't really know what they want. It's difficult to know what will happen in the future and how you're supposed to go about it. Of course you don't wish to jeopardize your friendship and can't really take the risk to initiate this conversation all by yourself. So how can you go about? How do you know if someone has a thing for you? We got the answers to that. Just read the following article to find some sure shot signs and understand his body language to know what is really going on in his heart.
Guys Do Give Signs
If you are getting worked up about this and are going crazy trying to find helpful information about signs, then he must be someone special. My advice to you: if he's a good guy and is compassionate to others, then go for it. Try your best and see if these signs work for you. Maybe he's showing you something you aren't able to see yet.
He Looks at You Differently
When a guy adores you and wants to see you more than his friend, he won't be able to keep his eyes off you. But looking at you doesn't actually mean he adores you. When I say "he looks at you", I meant looking at you differently. Frequent staring, adornment in his eyes, and giving you that bright, beautiful smile every time you catch his attention. If all this is true, then sweetheart, he does want you.
His Body Language Changes
A person's mannerisms can tell you what they're feeling and thinking at that very moment. There are certain body language that a guy fancies you such as laughing nervously, fidgeting with things in his hands, or getting flushed if you catch him staring at you. Although this can only be true to a certain limit. More often than not, guys are very shy and that could be a problem here; they don't actually show signs.
He's too Attentive
When you find him listening, I mean actually listening and paying attention to what you have to say, do, and behave, then you'll know something's up. To try this technique, call him at school or work, especially when he's surrounded among his friends or colleagues. If he snaps his head right up and tries to follow your voice, it's a sure sign. But if he takes his sweet time in looking away from his friends, then he's not worth all this hard work. Also, see if he likes to be near or around you as much as possible. If the answer is a big "YES", then you've got him hooked.
Talk to Other Friends
Ask your mutual friends if there are any changes they notice in him. When you simply can't understand how to tell if a guy likes you more than a friend, communicate with others. He may have been speaking to someone else about this and wanted opinions on it himself. Perhaps he's trying to find out if you like him or not. This way, you can easily find out what he thinks of you and how he sees the two of you.
Your Gut Feeling
Our instincts and gut feelings will help make sense of things. Whenever there is a situation in front of us, we don't just listen to our mind and make decisions. We get this inner voice, deep from within that tells us which road to take; and most of the time, that road is correct. And when the matter is about your love life, your heart, then you really can't just let your mind do all the talking and thinking. You need to listen to that inner voice of yours and get the vibes.
Besides these signs and tips, even you have an important role to play, if you want a lasting relationship. Even though there are many pitfalls in this thing called love, but it sure brings a lot of satisfaction and a sense of belonging.