"Boys frustrate me. I hate all their indirect messages, I hate game playing. Do you like me or don't you? Just tell me so I can get over you." - Kirsten Dunst
Do you often find yourself confused when it comes to men? Are you unable to gauge whether a particular guy in your class or office is interested in you? If yes, then it could have a lot to do with your inability to read the male body language. Just like women, men too display certain signs of attraction when they are interested in someone from the opposite sex. In fact, men are much more obvious when it comes to displaying their interest in a woman. All a woman has to do is to keep her eyes open and she will easily be able to get those hints. To help women figure out male body language better, below are some common behavior which are displayed by men when they are attracted to a woman.
Signs of Attraction From a Man
If you find that handsome hunk or that cutie-pie in your class staring at you, it is one of the sure shot signs of attraction that a guy likes you. Usually, when a guy likes a gal, the first thing that he will do to show his interest in her is to try to make eye contact with her. It is also his way to find out whether you are interested in him. So, if you are, look right back for a second and then look away, only to look at him again. This is more than enough to signal him that you too are interested!
A Perfect Gentleman?
When a man is in the presence of a woman he wants to go out with, he will be at his best gentlemanly behavior. So, if you find the guy opening doors for you or offering you a seat or looking well-groomed, it means that he is interested in you. Putting one's best foot forward in front of the woman they like is one of the signs of attraction from men. So, if you like a guy, keep your eyes open for such clues.
Omnipresent, Is He?
Do you coincidentally come across this guy in the college canteen and then again at the health club you frequent everyday? Well, it could be that these coincidences have been created by the guy! One of the commonest signs of male attraction is that he will constantly try to be around you. He may even come up with some silly excuses just to talk to you. So, if you think that destiny is what is bringing you face to face, it is HIM doing the trick, not God.
When a man is interested in a woman, he displays certain physical signs of attraction such as he will stand very close to her or try to keep his hand on her arm or shoulder in a very protective sort of way. When standing close to you, if the man leans towards you while talking or tries to touch you (not lustily but in a caring manner), it means that he wants to be intimate with you.
A good Listener?
If you are still confused over the signs of attraction from men, then here is the clincher. Has the guy suddenly started paying attention to each and every word that comes out of your mouth? Does he listen attentively even when you are talking about your gal pals or shopping sprees? If yes, he is definitely into you. Listening to you is his way to get to know you better and to find out your likes and dislikes. Paying undivided attention to a gal is one of the signs of romantic attraction that men display.
Want to know some male body language signs of attraction? Here you go - he appears nervous, touches his hair every now and then, pushes his shoulders back, makes his arms more visible to you (to show his muscles), sweats, stammers, basically is restless, fidgety and eager to please you. All these are signs of male attraction and if he exhibits them to you, it shows that he wants to date you.
Another sign of attraction from men is that his body language, gestures, actions will start resembling yours. If the guy is copying your mannerisms unconsciously, it signals that he likes you.
For a relationship to get going, it is very important that a woman catches these signs of attraction from men. Mind you, a man will seldom approach you unless and until he is somewhat sure that you too like him. So, the next time you see a guy whom you like displaying these above mentioned signals, respond with a smile...and leave the rest to the guy!