Oftentimes, you'll come across guys who will claim that they have all eyes for you, but in reality, you know that what they say is far from true. The harsh reality about some guys is that they unfortunately have eyes for every other girl out there. It's like an incurable disease for some. 'No strings attached' is a way of life for them, and that's the only way they roll. While dealing with a womanizer is a tough one on the whole, it's even worse when dealing with a womanizer boyfriend or a husband.
After all, there is nothing amusing about a man falling for every other woman in sight, especially after he's committed to you (or so you believe). It goes without saying but it is an ugly situation, and given that you probably are curious and wondering how to spot a womanizer, here are some signs that are an instant giveaway. Take a look.
Characteristics of a Womanizer
What follows is good enough to give you an idea for recognizing a womanizer. Consider the following as the top 5 traits of men like these.
He's an Absolute Charmer...
This sign is the ultimate giveaway for most men that happen to be the philandering kind. He's absolutely irresistible, and as much as you'd like to believe that you aren't like every other woman who falls for this kind of a guy, the truth is, you will. With guys like this, it's almost like there is no way out. He's charming to the extent that it would make you feel like a fool for giving up a chance to be with him, and nobody wants to be that woman who gave up the chance to be with such an 'amazing' guy, right? However, it is advisable that you do not fall for his charming ways, especially since it will not be worth it in the long run.
...And a Smooth Talker
The next giveaway for a man like this is his ability to smooth talk any woman. And when I say any, I mean any!! While this could be considered part of being a charmer, I believe that it should be considered a separate skill altogether. Yes, I do believe that the ability to sweet talk almost any woman out there is nothing short of a skill, and it is one that many do not possess.
He's vain, and how!! Guys like these cannot see beyond themselves, thus making them believe that they can score any woman they would like. As unfortunate as it may sound, it also does hold true in a majority of the situations. It is extremely rare to see their plan work against what they have in mind. In most cases, the woman has to be extremely headstrong and one who doesn't give in to emotions easily. Then again, they have the skill, remember?
He'll Convince You that You're All He Wants...
Trust me, he isn't interested in stealing your heart so do not get fooled. Do not forget, he is a lady's man and knows exactly how to work you! They're bad boys (players, if you will) and always will be (even though you hope he's being serious about you). Guys like these are generally very good at making you believe that you are 'it' for them. Unluckily, you aren't! Suggestion... Do Not Fall For It! The minute you believe that he's being true to you, you'll only end up hurting yourself.
...Yet, He Will Not Commit
Commitment? Right! At the risk of sounding slightly cynical, you should know that you aren't really getting it. Well, not any time soon at least. In all honesty, pinning any hope on any form of dedication is probably a mistake being made by you itself. If he's worked in a pattern where he has downright refused to tag what you have between the two of you, it's a statement in itself. Accept it and either live with it, or decide to get out of it and move on.
So, yeah! Those were the 5 most prominent signs of the little philanderer. Getting involved with guys like these is never a good idea, because in the long run the only thing you will get is... hurt. As much as you would like to believe otherwise, it rarely ever happens! That said, every decision is yours to make. Just make sure that you do not end up hurting yourself.