As worded by David DeAngelo, 'Attraction is not a choice.' When you are attracted to a person, you're just attracted to a person! God created Adam and Eve to unite together and be one. And what attracts men to women is the very same fact that lies in the way they are created. The most famous law of attraction ever created is 'opposites attract.' God made these two genders so opposite naturally, that attraction is bound to happen! Each and every woman in this world is capable to attract men and sweep them off their feet! The only thing why some women are able to be more attractive than others, lies in the way they carry themselves. Want to know the exact details? Let's discuss them, shall we...
What Attracts Men the Most
Before I start listing the things which tend to attract men towards a woman, I would like to say that these views on how to attract men are based on majority point of views and may vary from man to man depending upon their age and past experiences. After all, it's age and past experiences that change the expectations and taste of a person. So, based on all these facts, this is what I have to say on what attracts men to women.
The Right Curves
Hate to put it as the first point but the fact still remains that men first LOOK and then HOOK! 'Checking out the right curves' would be the first decisive step to approach you. Obviously, they have grown up watching the bold beautiful blondes and God knows how many times dreamed of being with one. So considering this fact, physical appearance matters to them. No wonder women try their best to enhance their assets in the best way possible!
How Does She Carry Herself
Now considering the fact that men want to have lots of options to choose from, not all women will have the right curves that would appeal to men. How does a woman carry herself is also of prime importance to them. Many men in fact, claim that they can analyze a woman's personality completely depending upon how she carries herself! For example, the way she dresses up, puts her make-up on, her hairstyle, perfume, the way she stands, eats, hold her purse, etc., can help a man judge whether or not she will be able to take care of her relationship! Scary huh!
The Positive Aura
Life itself is so complicated these days, that be it men or women, looking for a person who can help you 'uncomplicate' by bringing a positivity in your life is natural. Some women tend to emit the same positive aura which men can't resist at all. The reason behind this can be a heartwarming SMILE :), or a pleasant and confident personality. Bottom line is, men tend to attract towards women who can make them feel happy about life!
They say eyes reflects the soul! Men like the women who have this mysterious yet appealing look in their eyes. As for women, talking through their eyes can make a man more curious to know you more closely! Men like women who make a confident eye contact with them, signifying that they are approachable but not easy to get. Some men take it as a challenge and find it amazingly attractive. On the contrary, women who fail to look in the eyes, tend to look away or below, are a big turn off to men as it shows lack of self-confidence and insecurity!
No matter what your current hair stylist says, when it comes to guys, they tend to get attracted towards women who have nice long hair that smell good! Long hair somehow enhance the sensuality of a woman and that is something that definitely attracts men towards them!
Sense of Humor
Sense of humor is something that plays a vital role when it comes to spending a lifetime together. Well, guys don't generally approach a girl with "spending a lifetime together" in mind, but then it's their way of judging if the girl is fun to be with or not, and whether they should go in for a relationship with her or not. Same goes for girls too, so, it doesn't make sense to elaborate on this point, as both the genders know what one means by having a good sense of humor!
Now men are said to have the thing for the "dumb blondes", but to your surprise, men have gone smarter these days! (he he) They like women who are intelligent and have their sets of morals and standards in life. A woman who shows confidence and intelligence her, would attract men like a magnet as they expect a conversation that includes meaning and depth...something what men want in a relationship.
Women are always known to be the most talkative gender and men always feel that they never get a chance to be heard. Therefore, another point in what attracts men the most is the good listening skill of a woman. Someone who hears, understands, and then puts forth her point of view, without being too adamant, is a woman that most men would want to know. After all, looks don't stay for long, however, your capability to listen and talk with the other person is what keeps the spark glowing!
So these were some of the main features of what attracts men to a woman. I hope these points helped you in understanding the expectations that men seem to have from a woman they wish to know. All these points are very achievable and aren't difficult at all. Makes sense to me as it is always the bright side of the coin which attracts, and once one is convinced that they want that brightness in their life, accepting the darker side wouldn't be a burden, it would be a journey of exploring, sharing and loving!